B and I broke up a few years ago, after dating for about 3 years. Haven't been in a serious relationship since. OK you might say I was in a relationship with someone but it was never mutually exclusive. That's definitely tough to define but definitely not girlfriend. That went on for years like that but I had to end it completely because I finally realized how detrimental it is to finding someone to have a real exclusive relationship that will lead to a lifetime partnership of life. Unfortunately I had to learn it the hard way when I lost someone else I had fallen in love with. Unfortunately that's another story for a different time, especially since I've given her the keys to my blog.
I'm still volunteering with the pageants doing a variety of roles, making some really good friends along the way.
I've switched careers and joined a rocket ship of a startup and moved out of IT and became a sales engineer. This role really stressed the social part of my personality and I love what I'm doing. Not to mention I'm getting paid really well to boot. But I still get to leverage everything I've learned in the data centers and directly apply it to my job.
I now travel a lot. More than half the time I'm out traveling to different cities. Appreciating what each city has to offer.
Maybe I'll keep up with my blog. It's still semi secret since I don't advertise the link but a Google search may turn it up if you knew what to look for. Unfortunately most of my fellow blog mates have stopped blogging or disappeared from the blog world so not many people would be reading this anyway.